Marriage Counseling – Does It Really Work? Share Your Experience

Hi everyone,

I’ve been considering marriage counseling and wanted to hear from those who’ve gone through it. Did it help your relationship? What kind of counselor did you choose – was it through a clinic, private practice, or online?

Also, what should one expect during the sessions? Is it mostly talking, or are there structured exercises and take-home strategies?

If you’re comfortable, please share your journey—what worked, what didn’t, and any tips for couples thinking about giving therapy a shot.

Looking forward to your thoughts and stories!

Communication is often a significant area of struggle for couples, and christian marriage counseling addresses this with a mix of practical techniques and spiritual insight. Counselors teach active listening, empathy, and the importance of speaking truth in love. However, the spiritual dimension sets this counseling apart—prayer, mutual submission, and reliance on the Holy Spirit are central themes. Couples are encouraged to pray together and seek God's wisdom when making decisions or facing disagreements. This joint spiritual practice not only improves communication but also strengthens the couple's connection with God and each other.